Salon: Rise of the Dad Wars

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Salon‘s got an article up about stay/work at home dads, mentioning that even though the experience and conditions have certainly changed, the old expectations of Michael Keaton’s Mr. Mom still persist.

Some of the best parts of this article, however, take on the idea of gender expectations of men and emotional conflicts between a working-out-of-home father and a stay at home father. A Minnesota father named Russ mentions that “if more men stayed home with their children, they’d be getting their wives a lot less pregnant.” Very possible.

There’s also some talk in the article of discrimination from parent groups, which happens more than you’d think.

Also, the article mentions one of our BFFs, Canadian Dad, who we’d also mentioned recently too.

We don’t want to ruin the ending of the article – but let’s just say that the author, Mary Elizabeth Williams, says that staying home with your kids is awesome, whether you’re a man or woman. “A father, even a father who doesn’t go into an office, is not a babysitter,” says Williams. “He is not Mr. Mom. He is Mr. Dad.”

Score! Check out Salon for the rest of the story.

(photo affectionately stolen from Flickr user Michael-A)



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is married and has one son. You can also find his writing on HLN, The Good Men Project and The Huffington Post. He is an avid gamer, rides unicorns, and loves rainbows.
  • http://twitter.com/CanadianDadBlog Canadian Dad

    Hey guys! Thanks for the mention! I hadn’t seen this when I posted my response to all this stuff but there’s room for all Dad’s to talk about it, right?? Haha, look forward to talking more about it!! Cheers!

  • Darth_Father

    Seems like the author came up a theme but doesn’t really have anything to say about it..

    Plus, ‘m not sure who that is written for.  It says what us SAHDs all know and doesn’t seem to offer much to the Moms. 

    • http://www.8bitdad.com Zach Rosenberg

      We’re kind of at that point where it’s a traffic machine for major publications/sites to rustle up their mom-blogger to write about how fathers are important and what they feel – instead of just, ya know, hiring a fucking dad to do a column.

      I mean, regardless, I’ll take it. I’m not one of those “any press is good press” people, but as long as an article isn’t saying “those poor dads just don’t know how to change a diaper” then I’m mostly happy.